Article#15: Love ‘Reloaded’

It has been a while since you have seen my article on “Love” wherein I mentioned about ‘Universal Love’. However, this time, it is going to be about the love that happens between two unknown people for unknown reasons and even in an unknown way. This article presents the journey of love, all about how this love starts, where it takes you, how it changes you and how it is not finite.

This love cannot be defined by any means, it is not something that you choose and do, but is something that happens automatically, sometimes even without your knowledge. You do not find any reasons to love someone, in few cases, it can happen at the first site and in other, it can happen slowly. There are even cases wherein people do not realize that they already fell in love, but an incident or time unveils everything.

People say that love starts with friendship. In most of the cases, that is true. You both introduce yourself to each other, become friends, you talk, you find that comfort zone in each other’s company, you trust each other, you share your secrets, and you start loving to spend time with each other. There can come a time wherein you cannot imagine yourself without the other, you feel incomplete when they are not with you and would like to spend each and every moment with them, yes that means you are in love. Nevertheless, one question here, can best friends become lovers? Well, it depends. But cannot be true in all cases. There is one thin line between friendship and love. In fact, friendship is one kind of love J

Love is when you stop that person multiple times intentionally the time they are about to leave and even vice versa, Love is when you feel like placing your head on that someone’s thigh and just keep staring at them without anything to say. Love is caring about that someone in every possible way. Love is watching your favourite movie with that someone hand-in-hand. Love is when you start blushing on seeing that someone even from a distant view. Love is showing your duplicate anger without any proper reasons that you would have never shown to anyone. Love is placating that someone in the best possible way they like without the other expressing the same. Love is giving their favourite food to someone with your own hands. Love is sharing your best moments with that someone first in person before you share them with anyone else. Love is gaining the maturity to only give although you have not received the same properly. Love is living with that someone even in your thoughts. Love is trusting that someone in all the cases. Love is accepting that someone as they are without any complaints. Love is encouraging that someone’s abilities and covering up their drawbacks. Love is to forget everything that goes wrong for the next day. Love is to compliment that someone for their success without any ego getting in between. Love is to be alike inside and outside before that someone. Love is figuring out that someone’s actions for any kind of situations and co-operating with them accordingly. Love is understanding the perspective from the other end and providing a solution to any problem. Love is forgetting the world when you are in someone’s arms. Love is rewinding your memories with that someone when they are not with you. Love is just turning back repeatedly when you are about to leave that someone. Love is getting possessive about that someone even though you do not want to be. Love is being jealous unknowingly when you see that someone with someone else. Love is forgiving that someone for anything they did. Love is gaining the strength from within upon looking at that someone. Love is being as crazy as you can without any hesitation with that someone. Finally, Love is standing on one word together for the entire life.

Ever looked at yourself or identified the change within when you are in love? You find someone new in you. Everything seems to be good, bright, brilliant, amazing. All of sudden, you find yourself flying in the air and life becomes colourful everywhere. When you look at the mirror, you find the most handsome or most beautiful person on earth. Automatically, you turn out to be in a very good colour. You do not feel tensed or pressurized for anything, you do not think on what is going to happen tomorrow. In short, you do not worry for anything. All the positive vibes surround you. In addition, you become confident enough to deal with the circumstances. You never know that you got lot of talent. Daily, you find something new in you.

On the darker side, not all the love stories become successful. There can be one-sided, two-sided, still result in break-up due to various reasons. It depends on the mentality of that individual on how to take love because I personally feel that it only makes people strong even if it is not successful. One good saying here, “In love, it is not necessary for two people to stay together, but it is necessary for love to stay”.

We even wonder how people can fight even after being in love. But, we have to accept the fact that every one of us are different from the other and no two can have the same kind of perception towards anything. Sometimes, in fact fights should happen because they are just the result of love and expectation from each other. If no such things happen, then there is something to be surprised about. At the same time, if fights happen regularly, then you need to question on love and its existence.

Finalising the concept, love is a wonderful thing on earth. Try to make love and experience love at least once in a lifetime, but not forcibly, let it happen in its own way. Then you can feel the magic within and around. If you cannot find love, then love itself finds the way towards you. Only pending thing from your end is to wait for love to happen J

Happy Valentine’s Day ;-)