Article #83 : A Sulky Girlfriend

How many of you have shown your Sulky side to your partners or someone whom you are close to? Was it regular or just random? If your answer is the former option, then I am sure you would connect with what I am going to say and if your answer is the latter option, then it's important for you to know about it.

Well, today I am going to narrate the story of a Sulky Girlfriend based on the real life events.

Before I introduce you to the Sulky girlfriend, let me talk about her boyfriend, Prem who is a happy going guy and always loves to smile irrespective of his work pressure at office and family responsibilities at home. Then we have his girlfriend, a Sulky Girlfriend Prema, who was brought up in a mollycoddle way and expects everyone to pamper her in that way.

Early in the morning, as soon as she meets Prem, She becomes Sulky.

"Hi Prema"

"Huh"

"What happened"

"Nothing"

"Common, tell me. Are you angry with me?"

"Yes of course"

"But why?"

"I messaged you Good morning but you didn't give any reply to me"

"Oh I didn't even see that"

"But you have to see and reply right?"

"Ok, Did you notice the cuckoo anytime? It also wishes everyone good morning in her own way but doesn't care if anyone is hearing explicitly or acknowledging it"

"Oh so you want me to be a cuckoo?"

"No, I am saying we have so much to learn from it and by the way, your voice is also sweet like cuckoo. It's up to you if you don't want to agree"

"Oh please.."

"Thank God, finally you smiled. Now, don't be Sulky for these kind of silly issues next time"

Prema simply hears his words from one ear and leaves from the other. She keeps showing her sulkiness every now and then. But don't you think too much of anything can impact the relationship?

After a week they meet again. This time as usual Prema is in Sulky mode. 

"Hey Prema, What's up? You look upset, is everything fine?"

"Do you even know what was yesterday?"

"Oh you are again Sulky! No I don't know what was yesterday"

"It was valentine's day and you didn't even wish me"

"Huh, then you would have wished me right "

"If I do so, you won't see as usual and ask me to take inspiration from cuckoo"

"Ok, did you ever notice a puppy dog? It loves her owner unconditionally everyday. It doesn't count whether it's a valentine's day or some other day "

"Oh now you want me to be a puppy dog?"

"No, I am again saying we have so much to take inspiration from it. Hope you understand"

"No, This time you have to understand"

"Whatever I could say, I did. Now, it's your choice"

Don't you think the emotion of sulkiness started losing it's value here? Why? Because it's overloaded.

During their next meeting, Prema asks

"It's been 2 days, you didn't try to meet me or even message me"

"Hold on, the same applies to you. And by the way, today I am Sulky with you. Why should only girls have all the fun?"

Prema left the place angrily and they never met again.

Beyond this story, even I lost a relationship in my personal life only due to this emotion of Sulkiness. 

Being Sulky with someone is not wrong, but showcasing the same emotion multiple times can result in not having a value for that emotion and can even impact the relationship. So, let's ensure that we strike a balance while displaying our emotions in any relationship. What do you say? 

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